I started leaning into breaking in 2010. Leaning into love, into leaving, into heart ache, into letting my heart-break open from poetry, sermons, meditations, walks in the woods. I was broken wide open. The light flooded in and I started changing. It took a lot of breaking to get light into those places in my heart that had been held back in the shadows for so long.
As spring 2013 approaches, my work is shifting away from the work of leaning in to the breaking and more into leaning into the vision. My vision is grace and hope. In 2010 this “Breaking Me” blog started a journey to explore what love was, what it meant to be heartbroken, what it meant to be okay with breaking and leaning in deeper. That work continues and from time to time will surface here in my writing. The work I wish to bring more fully to this space is the work of exploring grace, cultivating the beloved within, hope, and manifesting the vision I hold for my life.
It was nearly a year ago when the shift in my work really began. Last May I dug deep into Earth work, started a new career, and moved 1000 miles from my home. The work continues as I learn to reshape and rebuild a new life. I have felt pregnant with a newness for my life, troubled with a complicated and stressful labor of liberating myself from invisible shackles, and finally I feel I have arrived.
With intention, I’ve changed the look of this blog. The photograph at the top was taken by me in downtown Baltimore – a place I feel is one of many homes to my heart. I’ve been photographing signs mentioning grace for over a year. This sign, a church sign, reads “The Grace & Hope Mission.” Yes! I feel like this is my personal mission right now.
I am cultivating the Beloved within. I am revitalizing my life with hope. I am manifesting a vision for my life. I am letting love be the boundary and grace be the gift.
“I do not understand the mystery of grace — only that it meets us where we are and does not leave us where it found us.” – Anne Lamott